Friday, July 3, 2009

mom hotseat

i am eve conner and i am 42 years old and a lawyer. my husband is not my first love but i love him and i met him in university. we dated for 3 years and have been married for 22 years. i love his drive to do well in life and although i realise that our passion has gone we still understand each other though there is not much sex. i am not lonely, rather, contented with life and i am proud of my daughters.

Michelle is not a mistake i think that she just went in the wrong direction in life. it is not really my fault because i have raised her as well as i could have and i have raised her well. i have told her to go to the science stream as i felt that she would have a good career by doing that and that is important to have a good career to do well in life. although michelle has rebelled with this, i'm sure she'll she that i'm doing the right thing by this.

i love chantelle and she has meet most of my expectations, she follows rules that i have set and is a role model for Michelle to emulate. brandon is a nice boy and i am worried that he is a bit too old for michelle and that michelle is spending too much time with michelle and her grades are getting worse because of this. david is a nice boy whom i have known since he was a baby, i am disappointed that he went to the same college as michelle as i know he is capable of better as he is the sort who strives hard.

i have not thought about michelle and david going out together as i think both of tham should concentrate on studying and find love later on, when their careers are set. chantelle is popular and that is good, if it makes her happy then i am happy. i am glad that david told me about michelle's pregnancy. i am horribly disappointed and angry at michelle, she should have known better but i am prepared to help her in any way that i can. i am saddened by ther suicide attempt and if i had to give michelle advice, i would not tell her to kill the baby as it is still human, i am willing to care for the child but i will set rules for Michelle.

after hearing about brandon and his actions, i feel that brandon is a bastard and i do not want michelle anywhere near her anymore but he has to face responsibility and i want him to support michelle and the baby financially. i am a big supporter of communication and i have family dinners to be mandatory for this purpose. i am not close to my daughters now as when they were younger but i hope that they have not drifted too far away from me. i know that michelle and chantelle are competitive with each other and they have not been very close recently.

eve connor

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